Sunday, July 18, 2010

Disciplining Our Kids

My continuing struggle with patience finally paid off.  My child was able to get a perfect score in spelling! Whew!  So what did I do? Simple, I lowered my expectation. I was just after my child passing her spelling quiz..  I also disciplined my child to have a regular study time and I also strictly imposed the "no television/video games" on school days.   I also placed myself in her situation. With her limited attention span, I had to find ways to engage her and help her understand how to syllabicate the word so it will be easier for her.  I am so proud of my daughter. When I asked  how she did it? She said that she has the best teacher in the world. In my mind, I should credit her English teacher for that. But then she said, "No Mom, You are the best teacher a daughter can ever have. I don't need a tutor. I just need you to help me get through this. I love you mom!"  Then she gave me a big hug and kissed my cheeks. I felt a tear drop...:)

There are so many parenting books at http://www.amazon.com that can help us become better parents. Here are some of those that I have read so far:

How to Help Your Child with Homework: The Complete Guide to Encouraging Good Study Habits and Ending the Homework Wars     -   How to Help Your Child with Homework: The Complete Guide to Encouraging Good Study Habits and Ending the Homework Wars

2.  Getting Unplugged: Take Control of Your Family's Television, Video Game, and Computer HabitsGetting Unplugged: Take Control of Your Family's Television, Video Game, and Computer Habits   Getting Unplugged: Take Control of Your Family's Television, Video Game, and Computer Habits


3.  The Discipline Book: Everything You Need to Know to Have a Better-Behaved Child From Birth to Age Ten   The Discipline Book: Everything You Need to Know to Have a Better-Behaved Child From Birth to Age Ten

What works for me might work for you too. Happy reading.

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